The Ultimate Guide To All Things Vibrators
What are Vibrators?
You might wonder what is the correct meaning of a vibrator? Don’t let someone tell you it is a dildo. It’s really simple. A vibrator is an object and fibers to stimulate your genitals or also known as a personal massager.It is important to note that using a vibrator can improve blood flow! Did you know that improving blood flow is one of the best things you can do for your health? When blood flow is improved, it means that your body is getting the oxygen and nutrients it needs to function at its best. This can help improve overall health, and can even help prevent certain diseases.Not to mention, the stress relief! We’ve seen how stress is impacting us with the cost of gas prices in California. The quality of our life and health is directly related to stress! Stress is a part of life, but it doesn’t have to rule your life. There are plenty of ways to manage stress and even reduce stress levels.One way to do this is through intimate relationships. Whether it’s a partner, family member, or friend, spending time with someone you care about can help reduce stress. Physical touch is also important for stress reduction. Studies have shown that massage can be an effective stress management tool. Relaxation techniques like yoga and meditation can also help to reduce stress. If you’re looking for ways to manage stress, don’t forget the power of intimacy and relaxation.
Another great way to relieve some stress is to masturbate! One reviewer said “I gotta be honest! I changed my mattress after using Rabbi (that’s what I call this toy from now on). It made me squirt ALLOOOOOT especially when I tuned it to number 10, oh boy Rabbi is a beast! I got other rabbits but this one stands out amongst others!” about her Better Love Rabbit Lily Vibrator.
What Do Vibrators Do?
Did you know that improving blood flow is one of the best things you can do for your health? Vibrations from self-massage can promote better blood circulation throughout the body which is important in maintaining one’s overall health.
When blood flow is improved, it means that your body is getting the oxygen and nutrients it needs to function at its best. This can help improve overall health, and can even help prevent certain diseases. In this blog post, we will discuss how vibrators can help improve blood flow and your overall health!
Fun fact, did you know? A study by the U.S. Library of Medicine, vibrations increase blood flow and improve both pelvic muscle tone and relaxation. And they’re more likely to help you orgasm! There is no doubt that the Womanizer Premium Clitoral Stimulator will let you down!
When you use a vibrator, it helps to increase blood flow by using vibrations. This can help improve your overall health by providing your body with the oxygen and nutrients it needs. In addition, self-massage has been shown to help reduce stress levels. One reviewer expressed their admiration for the divine Better Love Butterfly Clitoral Stimulator, “Like medicine for the body and soul, This little beauty definitely does the job and then some. Definitely, a must have!”
So, if you are looking for a way to improve your health and reduce stress, consider using a vibrator! Not only will it help improve blood flow, but it can also provide other benefits like reducing stress levels. Give it a try today!
How Do Vibrators Work?
If you’re like most, then I’m sure you Goldilocks your way to find the perfect toy. With all the different shapes, sizes and functions, we’ve all done that too big, too small, too powerful until we found THE JUST RIGHT!
I believe it was Miranda from Sex and the City, that said, “I know where my next orgasms coming from.”. Who here can say as much when bragging about her vibrator? But what makes them so good?
Well, it starts way deep down inside with the motor. Unlike standard motors that need to be more of a smooth ride, it’s the imbalance that packs the punch we all desire. Bring it to life with a power cord, rechargeable or replaceable batteries. And if you like speed and fancy patterned options, you’ll also need a printed circuit board or PCB, with all being enclosed in a variety of optimal housings to create lots of sensations, depending on the placement of the motor all perfectly wrapped in a luxurious, smooth ABS plastic or silicone. Check out our blog on How Long Sex Toys Last for tips!
When you first get a vibrator, it is important to take care of it properly so that it lasts for a long time. Here are some tips on how to take care of your vibrator:
1. Store it in a cool, dry place when not in use. This will help prolong the life of the vibrator.
2. Use it regularly. The more you use it, the better it will work.
3. Be gentle with it. Don’t apply too much pressure when using thevibrator, as this can damage the device (and you!).
4. Follow the manufacturer’s instructions. This will ensure that you are using the vibrator properly and it lasts a long time.
5. Clean it regularly. After each use, wipe down the massager with a clean, dry cloth. This will remove any dirt or debris that could build up and cause problems. See our blog on How to Safely Clean Sex Toys for better insight!
As always, this and more can be found on our blog at EllaParadis.com. You can also find us on YouTube and Vimeo, Vimeo.com/EllaParadis.
What To Look For When Purchasing Your First Vibrator?
If you’re new to the game, don’t be afraid to try something new!
Ella Paradis is a safe space to explore. Here are a few questions to ask yourself when in the market:
What are my pleasure points?
What is my price point?
What is my tolerance level?
What is your size preference?
The Best Vibrators For Different Sex Positions
No question about it: Vibrators are pretty amazing for solo sexual play. Using them with a partner, however, is the bee’s knees. As such, it doesn’t come as a surprise that (on average) about 81% of women and 91% of men who have used a vibrator have done so with a partner. Vibrators are an elegant way to enhancing sex and foreplay which brings a whole new level of excitement and pleasure for both partners. Still, they can be a little clumsy in certain positions. No worries – this is part of the reason they come in a multitude of shapes and sizes.
Missionary (man on top of partner) (strap-on on top of partner)
Couples who enjoy missionary know how versatile and pleasurable missionary can be since you can easily control the deepness and angle of penetration. It is also a great position for allowing a woman to access her clitoris with a small toy. One simple option that is great for beginners is the We-Vibe Tango Mini Bullet Vibrator. The woman simply has to turn it on and rub it against her clit while the man continues to penetrate her. If you’re interested in a vibrator with a little more bite, consider the JimmyJane Hello Touch X which not only provides vibrator, but also electro-stimulation.
Cowgirl (woman or man on top of man or strap-on)
For a woman, being on top can be pretty awesome. While she has control over the level of penetration, it can tire her legs so keeping rhythm after a long day or with a new partner can be challenging. The last thing she wants to worry about while holding herself up is trying to work a vibrator on her clit. Luckily, there are pretty amazing hands-free options. For instance, a fan favorite is the We-Vibe 4 Plus Couples Vibrator (which is worn by the woman) and gives her the freedom to touch her partner’s face, chest, shoulders, etc. while she has sex with them. Another great option is the Doc Johnson Tryst which can be worn by the man or woman and works in virtually any position.
Doggy Style (man or partner with strap-on behind other partner)
The great thing about doing it from behind is that a woman has tons of room for accessing her clit. This means the size and/or shape of the toy doesn’t really matter and you can truly choose your favorite. There are classics like the Hitachi Magic Wand that are really comfortable to use because of their big handle. You can also choose a more modern take with a similar design, JimmyJane Usual Suspects Iconic Vibrator Collection Wand. If wands aren’t your favorite, you can try a more petite toy like the JimmyJane Form 2 Vibrator. Pro tip: if you get tired from holding yourself up with one arm while the other arm is using a toy, try stacking pillows and leaning forward on them. You can also drop down to rest on your elbow on the bed or even lean forward onto the bed board.
Deciding Which Type Of Vibrator Is Right for You
By now, you are probably aware of the fact that there are several different types of vibrators out there. By the title of this article, you may be thinking that we are going to tell you that only one type of vibrator is right for everyone. That would be incorrect, and frankly, just silly.
Anyone can try and use any vibrator he/she chooses. The reason for the title is more about narrowing down the appropriate type of stimulation for you based on what pleases you and what doesn’t.
1. Rabbit Vibrator
Perhaps the most common of all vibrator types, the rabbit vibe gets its name because the majority of rabbit vibrators have the iconic “rabbit ears” at the end of the clitoral stimulator. Rabbits are easily recognizable not only because of the rabbit ear feature, but also because they are made of 2 distinct parts:
– a longer arm, typically featuring a vibrating motor and additional features such as rotating pearls, etc. specifically designed for vaginal insertion and stimulation
– a second shorter arm topped with the rabbit ears or some similar feature, designed for clitoral stimulation
For blended orgasms (orgasms involving any combination of vaginal, g-spot, and clitoral orgasms simultaneously), this is the standard and the go-to.
2. G-Spot Vibrator
Ah, the infamous and mysterious G-spot. If there are some of you out there who still believe it doesn’t exist, please, do me a favor and get one of these vibrators. Delicately constructed and perfectly angled, these vibrators are designed to put a small amount of pressure (like a gentle massage) on the G-spot, located about 2 inches inside the vagina and at the top of the vaginal wall. Some of these even come with clitoral extensions so you can have that oh-so-blessed blended orgasm we just discussed.
3. Clitoral stimulators
These little bad boys do exactly as their name suggests. They are not designed for anything except straight pleasure to the clitoris. Some clitoral stimulators simply vibrate, some use pulsating motions, and some are even designed to simulate oral stimulation to the clitoris. Since the clitoris is the pleasure center for every woman, containing over 8,000 sensory nerve endings, a clitoral orgasm is the most common orgasm that women experience.
4. Classic Vibrator
Nothing wrong with a good ol’ classic! This vibrator gets its name from the simplicity of its shape and function. With no unnecessary bells or whistles, the classic vibrator can come in any size or color, but it typically has a very basic phallic shape and is either used externally on the clitoris or internally in the vagina. These are far from boring, however, as many times they come in small and portable sizes, great for travel and convenience.
5. Finger Vibrator
Exactly as the name suggests, finger vibrators are typically no bigger than your index finger and often have an external latching or connecting device, perfect for attaching the vibrator to your finger for easier use. This is an excellent vibrator for partner play as it allows you to lie back while your partner gives you pleasure at the touch of a finger. But, of course, you can use it too! Anything you would normally do with your index finger will now be enhanced 100-fold with the assistance of this adorable, yet powerful, little fingertip tool. This is also a perfect traveling buddy as it is small enough to fit in a purse or carry-on bag and discreet enough to be nearly unnoticeable.
Beginners Vibrators Advice: Choosing & Enjoying Your First Toy
Buying a vibrator can be a daunting task. Not only are there 20,302,991 (and counting) vibrators to choose from; they all come in all different shapes, are made from different materials, and do different things. Especially if its Vibrators for Beginners.
Some of them even move.
We know. It’s crazy.
Thankfully, choosing your first vibrator isn’t hard once you know what you’re looking for. Even if you’re a bona fide beginner and have no idea where to start, simply learning about the different vibrator categories and what they do will quickly narrow your options. It’s the first step toward making the best choice when buying your first vibrator.
This guide will help you find your first vibrator.
To make buying your first vibe easy-as-pie, we created this ultimate buyer’s guide to lead curious potential owners through the vibrator selection process.
Here, you’ll find everything you need to know about the different types of vibrators, where to buy them, and how to use them, this way you can feel comfortable and confident you’re making the right choice.
We also selected our favorite rookie toys – easy, fun, and approachable vibrators that anyone can enjoy as they ease into the wonderful world of adult toys.
Below, we offer answers to common questions about the world’s most popular sex toy. Of course, if you’re eager to see our top picks, jump ahead to any of the sections below to find the vibrator of your dreams.
Vibrators for Beginners: What is a vibrator?
A vibrator is – drumroll please – any adult sex toy that vibrates. This vibration is usually accomplished using a powered motor (although some vibes have multiple motors).
Many people find vibration to be a pleasurable sensation. While this sensation can feel good all over the body, it’s particularly nice in erogenous zones like the clitoris, vagina, anus, and penis. These body parts contain high concentrations of nerve endings that are especially receptive to vibration. When you use a buzzy toy in those regions, the result is intense pleasure, an orgasm, or often both.
Vibrators are great tools for getting to know your body and learning to appreciate the positive sensations it’s capable of. They can also help you discern what feels good and what doesn’t – two valuable bits of info you can carry over to other sexual activities (such as masturbation and partnered sex) for even more enhanced pleasure.
Best of all, vibrators are good for you, too! Studies have shown them to improve mood, help with relaxation, boost sexual health, and inspire more enjoyable sex.
Vibrators for Beginners: How do you use a vibrator?
There are only two rules to using a vibrator:
Use it however feels good to you!Never insert anything without a flared base or a phalange into the anus!
Other than that, experiment and play “find the sweet spot.” Your first time using a vibrator can be a “whatever feels good” kind of game. Plus, any gender sporting any body part can enjoy nearly any type of vibrator.
In short, get creative and do what works for you.
Vibrators for Beginners: When should you use a vibrator?
Whenever you want to! Many folks use them during masturbation, but plenty of couples use them during play to enhance sensation and increase intimacy between each other as well.
Likewise, vibrators come in a variety of shapes and sizes, making it easy to find one that will meet your needs.
Do travel a lot? Consider a smaller vibe like a bullet or egg.Do you prefer external stimulation? Try a clit stimulator or wand massager.Want something for anal play? A vibrating butt plug is the way to go.Feeling bold and want to use it in public? Go with a vibe that’s remote-controlled.
Experimentation is the quickest way to learn what you like, so play and play often. Once you know what you enjoy, it’ll be much easier to find a vibrator that meets those needs.
What are the best vibrators for beginners?
Vibrators are often classified by their shape or the area of anatomy they’re designed to stimulate. Here are some of the more common categories of both, as well as some of the best beginner vibrators of each type.
1. G-Spot Vibrators
With their angled heads and easily recognizable curves, G-spot vibrators are designed to help you find and stimulate the – you guessed it! – G-spot.
The G-spot is not an actual organ; rather, it’s a concentration of pleasurable nerves located 2-to-3 inches up inside the vagina on the same side as the bellybutton.
Stimulating this area with toys, fingers, penises or any other item that feels good can produce particularly memorable orgasms and intense sensations. But be advised, the G-spot is a mercurial bunch of nerves that typically responds best to touch when its owner is already aroused. Because the G-spot is located inside the vagina, this type of vibrator is best for those who enjoy penetration.
Learn more about G-spot orgasms.
Better Silky G-Spot Vibrator
The Better Silky G-Spot Vibrator vibrator by Better Love is one of the best beginner vibes on the market. With a reasonable price tag and robust feature set, this pretty little vibrator is sure to keep you smiling. It’s 100% waterproof, completely rechargeable, and boasts 10 unique vibration settings to satisfy women of all walks of life.
Best of all, the smaller size makes it super portable, meaning you can take it on vacations and business trips.
LELO Gigi 2
With its gorgeous design, slim silicone body, and powerful vibrations, the Gigi 2 is one of Lelo’s best-selling vibrators worldwide. It’s great for beginners because of the shape of its head; the rounded bulge at the top makes locating and pleasuring the G-spot particularly easy.
Additionally, the deep, rumbly quality of the Gigi 2’s vibrations make for a deeper, more encompassing internal massage. Even better, if people find that G-spot play is not what they’re in the mood for that day, they can still turn the Gigi around and use its broad, flat head for clitoral stimulation.
2. Clit Vibrators
While anything that vibrates tends to feel pretty good on the clitoris, clit-specific vibrators (also called “clit stimulators”) are often smaller and easier to hold on that area for more direct stimulation.
Clit vibrators also come in a spectrum of shapes that can be fun to experiment with. There’s everything from small, bullet-shaped devices to broad, flat, pebble-like vibes. Many clit vibes are also designed to mimic the natural curvature of the vulva. This makes them particularly easy to hold in place during partnered play.
A lovely option for those who prefer external stimulation, clit vibes can also be used on the perineum, anus, nipples, penis, and testicles.
Je Joue Mimi
While some people prefer a more pointed sensation on their clit, the Je Joue Mimi is a better option for folks who enjoy kneading feelings similar to the one you might get with the palm of a hand or a few fingers used at once.
With its broader surface area, the Mimi targets the clit and the vulva with lush, rumbly vibrations whose frequencies are known for activating deeper nerves. Beginners may enjoy experimenting with how different parts of the Mimi offer different sensations.
Our advice: play around with the tip, the flatter part of the body, or the rounded edges for a rush of pleasure.
Satisfyer Pro 2
Among the most popular clit stimulators out there, the Satisfyer Pro 2 has everything you could ever want in a vibrator. Whisper quiet, completely waterproof, and made from a body-friendly silicone, the Pro 2 rocks 11 intensity levels, allowing for plenty of variety in the sensations it provides.
Used alone or with a partner, the Pro 2 is an easy choice for a first-time vibe owner who wants the best of the best.
3. Finger Vibrators
If you’re a fan of manual stimulation, finger vibrators are a great, low-pressure way to add some intensity to that type of play. Finger vibes come in many shapes and sizes, but in general, you can attach them to either your fingers or your hand so that they stay conveniently in place while you do your thing.
Because you don’t have to think terribly hard about holding them, finger vibes make particularly charming add-ons to oral sex. Just think how interesting fellatio, cunnilingus, or analingus could get if the fingers you were already using could, you know, vibrate.
Slip the Fin by Dame Products right between your fingers for an intensified external massage that’s almost too easy to pull off. It’s perfect for the clit, but it’s just as suited to go anywhere your fingers can (except the anus, unless you’re trying to make an ER doctor’s day).
The Fin’s not super strong, so it’s a nice option for beginners who are looking for external stimulation but aren’t sure how intense of a sensation they like.
Fifty Shades of Grey Secret Touching
The Fifty Shades of Grey Secret Touching finger massager is a tantalizing toy with a lot to love. Waterproof and temperature sensitive, this delightful finger vibe will leave your lover shuddering with pleasure. Turn it on yourself for a similar delightful experience, if you dare!
4. Bullet Vibrators
Bullet vibrators are small, external toys that are particularly handy for clitoral stimulation. They can also be adapted or added on to pretty much any other kind of toy you can imagine.
Bullet vibes are a great diagnostic tool for beginners who aren’t sure what size, shape, or strength they’re looking for. Vibes it doesn’t get much smaller than a bullet, and they only come in one general shape, so using one can help you figure out if you need something bigger or of a different design.
Ironically, despite their size, there’s a high degree of power variation in the world of bullets. As such, because they’re tiny, they’re ideal for use during partnered sex when folks want some extra sensation but don’t want a toy that gets in the way.
Jade Bullet Vibe w/ Remote Control
Better Love’s Jade Bullet is among the greatest values out there when it comes to bullet and egg vibrators. With an ultra-quiet motor, waterproof design, and 10 vibration settings, you’ll find plenty of fun ways to play and experiment with the Jade Bullet.
Best of all, it includes a remote control that allows you to take your excitement to new heights anywhere you choose to go. Great for beginners looking to experiment with remote-controlled sex toys.
Tit-for-tat, the We-Vibe Tango is the one of the strongest, most rumbly bullet vibes on the market. No one knows for sure how they got all that power into that tiny frame, but they did, and we’re grateful for it.
Beginners will enjoy its flattened tip, waterproof body, and how easy it is to clean. Even more so, newbies might like to know that you can attach it to literally anything (via the power of rubber bands) to make it vibrate with the strength of a thousand earthquakes.
5. Wand Vibrators
Wand vibrators and handheld personal massagers are known for one thing: strong, diffuse, full-body sensations. Because most of them pack a powerful motor in their rather hefty handles, they’re relatively large. This makes them great for people with mobility issues and larger bodies, but they’re really meant for anyone looking for intensity.
By default, wand vibrators are made for external stimulation, but many companies make insertable attachments you can put on the wand’s head to turn it into an internal toy, should the mood strike. The clit responds with a particular enthusiasm to wands, and many people report they’re able to have spontaneous orgasms in the absence of desire while using these toys (though individual results may vary).
If this sounds like something you’d be into, check out our picks for the six best wand vibrators, regardless of experience. For those looking for something better suited to a first timer, our beginner picks are below.
The Magic Wand Original
This is the wand that started it all. Curling toes since the 1970’s, the Original Hitachi Magic Wand is perhaps the most recognized and whispered about sex toy known to man on account of its uniquely deep vibrations.
It’s remarkably uncomplicated, and thus accessible for beginners. With only two settings (strong and stronger), it doesn’t take much effort or know-how to ride this ride.
FemmeFunn Diamond Wand
For the rookie who’s not sure which toy is right for them, the FemmeFunn Diamond Wand has an answer: all of them.
This multi-tasking hybrid friend combines extra-strong, wand-style vibrations, G-spot stimulation, and pointed clitoral stimulation all-in-one for an ultra-efficient – and ultra-stylish – full-body experience. What can we say? Sometimes it pays to be indecisive.
6. Rabbit Vibrators
For being called “rabbit” vibrators, only about half of this vibrator type has the small, soft, rabbit-style ears that give them their name. A more accurate name for this type of vibes would be dual stimulators – toys intended to provide both internal and external pleasure at the same time.
They have one smaller arm meant to stimulate the clitoris, and one larger arm that goes inside the vagina. Many rabbit-style toys also have internal portions that move in small circles, that have rotating beads on their shafts, both, or neither.
One of the best things about rabbit vibes is that they’re safe for anal use – the clit arm acts as a base or phalange, meaning that the toy cannot get pushed up too far or lost. However you choose to use it, rabbit vibrators tend to provide a lot of stimulation.
Ivy G-Spot Flexible Rabbit Vibrator
The Ivy G-Spot Flexible Rabbit Vibrator is a dependable vibe that checks all the right boxes for beginners. With 10 different settings, this budget-friendly toy is great for simultaneous vaginal, clitoral, and G-spot stimulation. It’s also ultra-cute and silky soft, making it super accessible and even easier to enjoy.
Fifty Shades of Grey Greedy Girl Rabbit
For the beginner who can’t quite decide between clitoral and G-spot stimulation, get a toy that can do both. The Greedy Girl rabbit vibrator has independent motors in both the clit and internal arms, giving you a full range of sensation, all while its uniquely angled head ensures that, if it’s the G-spot you’re after, you won’t miss it.
7. Slimline Vibrators
A slimline vibrator is typically a no-frills option with no attachments or crazy features. They’re typically sized for internal stimulation but can be used externally, too.
Slimlines can be especially conducive to beginners, because they’re so adaptable. While many are, well, slim, many others come with a bit more girth for those who enjoy a fuller feeling.
Jimmyjane Iconic Smoothie
Modeled after the classic slimline vibrator popularized in the 1970’s, the sleek and slim Iconic Smoothie by Jimmyjane is about as basic as it gets. Beginners can learn a ton from a simple toy like this.
Because you can use it for vaginal penetration and clitoral stimulation – and because it’s long, yet slender – it can really call attention to which areas feel good and which areas could use some added or different types of touch. That, or they might fall in love with it as is and never need another toy for the rest of… this week?
8. Couples’ Vibrators
Technically speaking, any vibrator can be used as a couples’ vibrator. That said, some toys are particularly well-suited for two (or more) people. Often, these toys involve remote controls, apps, or shareable shapes everyone can enjoy.
We-Vibe Unite 2.0
The We-Vibe Unite 2.0 does it all! The smaller end is meant to be inserted into the vagina, while the fatter end rests outside the vulva, on top of the clit. The internal portion is thin enough so that someone can penetrate the vagina while the Unite is inserted. This both presses that part closer to the G-spot for extra sensation and allows the partner doing the penetration to enjoy the vibration.
It also comes with a remote control, so the person wearing it can be stimulated from across the room. No partner? No problem! The Unite can be used solo in pretty much any way you think feels good.
9. Vibrating Cock Rings
Penises love vibration too! Vibrating cock rings can be fun for people who enjoy the sensation of vibration on their penis or testicles, but they’re also fun for couples!
The cock ring turns the penis wearing it into a vibrator, meaning if you’ve got a penis and you’ve got a vibrating cock ring, you’ve essentially got an entire sex store at your fingertips.
In case you’re short on penises (or they’re just not your thing), you can also easily use cock rings for any sort of external stimulation, be it on the clit, anus, nipples, or… left elbow?
Jimmyjane Iconic C-Ring
When it comes to beginner-friendliness, you can’t get much more beginner-friendly than the Jimmyjane Iconic C-Ring. Made from super-stretchy elastomer, it can fit comfortably around most penises or packages (i.e. both the penis and testicles).
The small bullet vibrator on tip brings a wave of buzzy sensation to wherever you put it and – when used with a partner – can feel great to grind up against. Make sure to use with a high-quality lube for easy application and removal.
10. Penis Vibrators
These are, quite simply, vibrators that penises can use. Hooray!
Like other vibrator categories, penis vibrators vary in shape and size. Many men enjoy using them during masturbation, but they’re also great for working into couple’s play.
Hot Octopuss Pocket Pulse
Think of the Pocket Pulse as handjob upgrade. Made of soft, smooth silicone, it’s designed to be used as a vibrating stroker that massages the shaft and head of the penis.
Beginners will love how easy it is to hold (it cups right into the natural curve of your hand) and how seamless it can be integrated into play. Use it during masturbation, hand jobs, blow jobs, or even on the base of the penis during penetrative sex for absurdly pleasurable sensations.
11. Anal Vibrators
Butts! Everyone has one, making toys designed for anal a remarkably inclusive category.
When approached correctly, the anus can be a source of lovely, intense pleasure for many people. In fact, it’s home to the second-highest concentration of pleasurable nerve endings in the human body, outnumbered only by the clitoris.
The rectum and prostate (if you have one) are also power-packed with the same sorts of orgasmic nerves that innervate the clit, vagina, penis, and testicles. This means both external and internal anal play can feel quite nice. Just like toys for the clit, vulva, and vagina, there are many shapes and sizes of anal toys to choose from.
Always use lube with an anal toy, as the anus does not self-lubricate like the vagina does.
New to butt plugs? Interested in butt plugs? Learn everything you need to know in our beginner’s guide to butt plugs!
For a first-time anal vibe user, the We-Vibe Ditto butt plug is just about the finest introduction to the world of anal play you can get. With a size and shape designed for comfortable, easy wear and a velvety-soft silicone material, it’s accessible, hygienic, and – most importantly – fun!
The Ditto comes with both a remote control and a Wi-Fi-enabled app, so you can change its vibration patterns and intensities hands-free. While you don’t need to use the app unless you want to, it lets you customize your vibration patterns and interact with a partner from across long distances, putting you squarely in control of your pleasure in a whole new way.
Where’s the best place to buy your first vibrator?
There are many places to buy a vibrator, both online and off. The internet is awash with sites that both review and sell vibrators of every conceivable shape, color, size, and function, but there are also plenty of clean, reputable, sex-positive stores you can visit if you’d like to see the toy in person before you buy it.
Unfortunately, sex toy stores aren’t quite as ubiquitous as, say, Walgreen’s or Chipotle, but most major cities in most states have them. It’s also understandable that some people are simply uncomfortable going to a local sex toy store. If you’re rural, don’t have a car, or just plain don’t feel like leaving the house today, the Internet is your friend.
That said, you’ll find plenty of benefits buying your first sex toy online with a retailer like Ella Paradis. In addition to avoiding any discomfort or inconvenience you might experience visiting a shop IRL, you’ll enjoy benefits like free shipping, fast and discreet packaging (what you buy is nobody else’s business), and no-hassle returns.
You’ll also find high-quality images of everything we carry, including detailed information about the product to ensure you know exactly what you’re getting. Once you get it, if you’re not completely satisfied, just return it!
One site we’d stay away from is Amazon. While it’s great that Amazon has a liberal return policy (fantastic for products that don’t go inside you), there’s no guarantee that a sex toy purchase hasn’t been opened or used by someone else. This is never a concern when you shop online at a specialized sex toy store like Ella Paradis. Everything we sell is 100% new and has never been opened by anyone before you.
Dildo vs. Vibrator: What’s The Difference?
Many times today, we confuse the term ‘dildo’ with the term ‘vibrator,’ often using them interchangeably. But there is a distinct difference between the two. While vibrators are often dildo-shaped, the main difference is, of course, the fact that dildos do not have a vibrating feature. So, let’s go over this in detail.
What is a Dildo?
Dildos are love toys that are molded and shaped to resemble a penis (fun fact: many dildos are cast from the genitals of male porn stars). Usually, these toys are made of jelly, silicone, plastic, or glass.
As such, they come in a variety of colors (bright or fleshy colored), shapes (straight or curved), sizes (length and thickness), textures (smooth or veiny), and density (hard or soft). Dildos can be used by both women or men – though, they are meant for penetration as there is no vibration whatsoever.
That’s right – it means your hands are doing all the work (or your legs if you’re riding your toy in a squatting position).
Different Types of Dildos
There are a variety of different types of dildos. They’re all shaped like penises, but they’re engineered for varying uses.
For example, a strap-on is meant to be used with a harness, which a woman wears for lesbian play or for anal play with a male partner. The most popular are silicone dildos because of their flexibility and softness, but plastic and jelly are often sought out as well.
Some have testicles at the bottom to create a realistic illusion while others have a flared base, with or without a suction cup, for better grip.
Using a Dildo
If this is your first time using a dildo, you’ll want to take special care when playing. These sex toys come in varying sizes including girth and length, so using lube can actually help make playing more comfortable, particularly if you’re not aroused to start with. Don’t insert the entire thing at once, go slowly, find your comfort zone and experiment from there.
What is a Vibrator?
Unlike a dildo, a vibrator… well, vibrates! Like dildos, Vibrators come in a variety of colors, shapes, sizes, textures, and density. However, with vibrators, the options truly are endless.
It’s true that some vibrators CAN be shaped like a penis (in other words, it’s a dildo that vibrates), but certainly not all. Instead, vibrators come in different shapes to target erogenous areas and vibrate until you orgasm! This means that some are designed for external use (for instance, a bullet vibrator like this one can stimulate your clitoris), while others can be used either on the inside or the outside of your body.
With the advent of smartphones, some can even be controlled with an app. That’s right – even when your honey isn’t around, you can engage in some serious cyber-play.
Different Types of Vibrators
When choosing a vibrator, you might be overwhelmed by the selection, but we break it down for you here. A g-spot vibrator is designed for internal use, it targets that hard-to-reach erogenous zone while external models are designed for clitoral stimulation.
A rabbit vibrator gives you the best of both — external and internal stimulation with a wand you insert and a vibrating set of bunny ears that tickles your clit. The result is a double pulsation that leads to a mind-blowing orgasm!
Some have varying degrees of vibration with increasing levels, while others combine a sucking mechanism to drive you absolutely crazy.
Using a Vibrator
If this is your first vibrator, you might be curious as to how to use it. It all depends on the type you purchased and the features it has. Make sure you read your instruction manual for safe and proper use, whether it’s an internal or external model.
What Is a Vibrating Dildo?
Of course, there are vibrating dildos, too. These capture the best of both worlds — penetration and stimulation.
A vibrating dildo brings more fun to your masturbation session, because you can use it internally or externally, vaginally or anally. In addition to reaching your erogenous zones, it also provides stimulation with its pulsating or vibrating modes.
Speaking of those modes, some have varying levels. You can start off slow, then build up the intensity until it’s exactly what satisfies you.
While there are many models that use batteries, many have caught up with the times and are rechargeable, which means you can plug and play anytime.
Using a Vibrating Dildo
Using a vibrating dildo is no different than using a regular dildo. The penetration is the same, but the effect of the vibration is designed to increase your pleasure one level at a time and give you the stimulation you need to climax again and again.
You’ll wonder what took you so long to discover one and it’ll become part of your regular play.
Just make sure you read over important directions for care and storage, as well as operating modes and recharging instructions for safety.
Dildo vs Vibrator: Costs
When it comes to comparing the costs of dildos and vibrators, you really have to look at the features. There are basic models and then there’s those with a host of features to drive you over the edge just the right way.
Dildos made of plastic will be cheaper than those made of silicone and glass, for instance. And, a basic vibrator with three intensity levels will be considerably cheaper than a model that comes with Bluetooth capability and app control.
When comparing the two sex toys, dildos are often cheaper in general because they don’t typically involve mechanisms, with the exception of vibrating models and those that squirt fluids of your choice.
Ella Paradis offer a variety of discount codes and sales throughout the year to expand your savings, so be on the lookout for these as you never know when one might pop up.
Dildo vs Vibrator: Cleaning and Storage
The care for each type — a dildo or a vibrator — is essentially the same. You want to make sure you clean off the toy before storage and always place it in a cool, dry place to prevent damage.
Some come with cases, or you can buy specialty boxes or bags to keep them from collecting dust between uses.
Other Types of Sex Toys
In addition to dildos and vibrators, there are a variety of other toys you can add into your masturbation session. For example, Lelo, one of the most popular brands, offers clitoral stimulators, massagers, vibrators, penis rings and toys for butt play, such as the prostate massager. Others like Hitachi have wands and personal massagers.
What Is a Massager?
A massager is a sex toy designed to “massage” your erogenous zones. Brands like Hitachi, We-Vibe, Dame Products and Lelo have a variety of models available. Most are designed for external use, to massage on the clitoris on a woman or the frenulum on a man. Some come with insertable attachments while others are small enough to fit on your finger for discreet play.
Dildo vs Vibrator: What type of Sex Toy Is Best for Me?
Only you know what your sex life really needs. When it comes to dildos vs vibrators — or vibrating dildos, if you prefer the dynamic duo — it’s truly a personal choice.
If this is your first adventure with sex toys, it’s not a bad idea to check out sex tips based on your personal preferences. For example, if you don’t reach climax via penetration, a vibrator may be more your speed — pun intended.
Both vibrators and dildos are body-safe and are amazing sex toys for women and men alike, especially when you consider the number of features each offers and the unlimited potential for orgasms. One thing’s for sure — no matter which toy you ultimately decide to go with, you’ll definitely elevate your play time.
Best Affordable Vibrators That Won’t Break The Bank
There are some things in life that get better the more you pay for them. Plastic surgery. Airline tickets. Razors. Probably caviar.
Vibrators, however, are not one of them. Thanks to the miracle of modern technology, a high-quality vibrating toy can be yours for a price you won’t have to mortgage your house for.
Best Cheap Vibrators:
The best vibrators are the ones that deliver on their promise to bring you to ecstasy, without breaking the bank. They come in all sorts of price points, but that doesn’t mean you can’t experience an amazing orgasm without spending several hundreds of dollars.
Are there more expensive vibrators out there? Yes. Do they work better or help you reach new climax levels you’ve never experienced before? Not always. The best sex toys aren’t always the most expensive, but rather the ones that have the features that elevate your experience.
There are plenty of amazing, yet affordable sex toys for sale out there, but to make it easier on your watch as well as your wallet, we put together a list of some of the best inexpensive vibrators anyone can enjoy.
Best Value G-Spot Vibrator
JimmyJane LiveSexy Intro 6
Material: SiliconePower: BatteryStrength: 5/10
When it comes to finding and stimulating your G-spot, the most important quality a sex toy can have isn’t luxuriousness; its shape. A toy with a curved or angled head like the LiveSexy Intro 6 is all you need, which is great news considering it’s only $59.99.
For that price, you get an incredibly high-quality silicone toy with different vibration options, including three speeds and three patterns you can experiment with. It’s even got just a tad of girth, which is nice if you’re into that kind of thing. Batteries are even included, people. Batteries!
Cheap Trick: G-spot stimulation tends to feel better when you’re already aroused. When someone’s in the mood, their clit, vulva, and vagina engorge with blood. Their vaginal canal may even lengthen a bit in anticipation of penetration (regardless of whether or not penetration is actually involved).
This extra circulation and stretch can make the g-spot more prominent and easier to find. So, to maximize your g-spot vibe experience for zero dollars and zero cents, do whatever you need to do to get yourself or your partner hot, heavy and mentally there beforehand.
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Best Value Clit Vibrator
Satisfyer Pro Traveler
Material: SiliconePower: BatteryStrength: 6.5/10
Okay, so it’s not technically a vibrator per se, but it is one of the world’s best-selling clitoral stimulators for a reason. The best-seller, Pro Traveler, uses waves of pressure and suction to enable crazy-intense orgasms without over-stimulating the clit, and, with 11 vibration settings and intuitive controls that let you move seamlessly between them, it’s easy to customize the sensation to your liking.
It’s mercifully small, inconspicuous and quiet, making it perfect for travel or on-the-go use. Use this clitoral vibrator in tandem with a good water-based lube to increase suction, enhance sensation and protect your clit even more.
Many people who’ve never used one of these toys before want to know what it feels like — well, picture someone sucking on your clitoris, but with more intensity than the mouth is capable of and a more rigid texture than human lips. Not bad for $49.00.
Cheap Trick: If you’ve got a bathtub or a shower, you’ve got an automatic booster for your Satisfyer Pro Traveler. Water increases the intensity of its suction, meaning if you find yourself wanting some more intense clitoral stimulation all you have to do is, well, take a relaxing bath.
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Best Value Finger Vibrator
50 Shades of Grey Secret Touching Finger Vibe
Material: SiliconePower: BatteryStrength: 3/10
Revolutionize your masturbation routine, oral sex skills or pleasure during partnered play for just $16.99 with the Secret Touching Finger Vibe. This effective little toy slides directly onto your finger to turn it into its own, tiny vibrator.
You can use it for any sort of stimulation that piques your interest (except internal anal … this toy’s tiny; it could easily get lost). If you want to get really into it, put individual vibes on as many fingers as you want to intensify the sensation.
Cheap Trick: Finger vibes are great for teasing because of how much dexterity and control you already have in your fingers. Massage or trace your fingers around you or your partner’s erogenous zones to heighten anticipation, then go directly into manual stimulation, a hand job or oral sex using the finger vibe as an extension of yourself.
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Best Value Bullet Vibrator
JimmyJane Usual Suspects Iconic Bullet
Material: Hard plasticPower: BatteryStrength: 4/10
Big things come in small packages as far as the Iconic Bullet is concerned. This tiny toy packs a serious punch of power which you can play around with for just $19.99. Plus, it’s submergible at very shallow depths, which means it’s perfect for the shower, bath or even the beach.
Cheap Trick: Want to see what a bullet vibe feels like inside? Be our guest, but slip it inside a condom first so it’s easy to find and remove. Not recommended for anal insertion.
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Best Value Wand Vibrator
CalExotics Inspire Wand
Material: SiliconePower: RechargeableStrength: 7/10
It feels good to use the Inspire Wand during sex or masturbation, but it feels even better to know that you’re supporting breast cancer survivors by doing it. CalExotics donates a portion of the profits from the Inspire Wand to Living Beyond Breast Cancer®, a non-profit organization that supports women affected by breast cancer.
And with its petal-soft silicone material and 10 different speeds of escalating vibration and pulsation, you might be making more charitable donations than you were prepared for. This wand massager is only $69.99.
Cheap Trick: Life would be great if we could all afford regular massages, but since some of us don’t own a Fortune 500 company, having a cheaper, more on-hands massage option would really help. Thankfully, magic wand vibrators make great masseuses. Apply them anywhere on your body you have tension for instant, gratifying relaxation.
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Best Value Rabbit Vibrator
Jack Rabbit 7 Function
Material: TPRPower: BatteryStrength: 6/10
With the JackRabbit 7 Function, you get three toys in one — a clit vibe, an internal vibrator, and a shaft of rotating beads that provide a thrilling massage sensation to compliment all that lovely vibration. You can operate this toy’s vibration and rotation functions independently, and with seven speeds and three modes, you can imagine how many combinations of sensation that could lead to.
This toy has seven functions and three speeds of rotation independently from the vibration controls, you can customize it however you please and those bunny ears will provide tons of stimulation. Made of super soft TPR material, the JackRabbit 7 Function makes a comfortable ride on a dime at $59.20.
Cheap Trick: Rabbit vibes also make fun anal toys. Because the clit stimulator arm acts as a base or phalange, they’re safe to insert anally.
However, if you don’t want full penetration, you can still stimulate the outside of the anus by using this toy’s motion function to trace gentle swirls of its vibration patterns around the anus for a DIY rimming sensation. If you have a vagina, you can also turn the toy over so that the clitoral arm is stimulating your perineum.
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Best Value Vibrating Cock Ring
Tantus Super Soft Vibrating C-Ring
Material: SiliconePower: BatteryStrength: 5/10
The Super Soft Vibrating C-Ring is one of Tantus’ best selling items. Featuring an ultra-stretchy, satin-soft cock ring with a mildly strong removable vibrator, it’s equally friendly for beginners and cock-ring connoisseurs alike.
Ideal for strengthening erections, improving stamina and heightening sensation, this ring is awesome for solo use, but is particularly fun for couples interested in sharing more than just a moment. You can get all that jazz for only $39.99.
To use it most comfortably, lube the inside of the ring with a good water or oil-based lube, pull one testicle through, then the other before sliding it over your penis. The best, most pleasurable placement for a ring like this is around the whole package (penis and testicles) but if that doesn’t feel right or it’s not the right fit, it’s great to wear just on the shaft of the penis, too.
Cheap Trick: You can flip a vibrating cock ring upside down so the vibrator is on your perineum (the area between a person’s genitals and anus.) That area is loaded with pleasurable nerve endings and is typically extra-sensitive since it’s often ignored. You can also use it for a clit vibe, or throw it on a dildo to magically turn it into a vibrating dildo.
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Best Value Vibrating Stroker
Sono Stroker No. 22
Material: TPEPower: BatteryStrength: 5/10
Treat your penis like a million bucks for just over $50 with this super-soft and supple TPE stroker from Sonos. Designed with a ribbed canal and shaft-massaging stimulation beads, it rounds out this sensation overload with a strong, 10-speed bullet vibrator whose reverberations ripple gloriously throughout the toy.
Its grenade exterior is easy to grip, and while it’s a flexible little thing, it still remains firm and tight no matter how enthusiastically you use it.
Cheap Trick: Run your Sono stroker under warm water for a few minutes to heat it up before you use it; then apply some water-based warming lube or a stimulating gel to your penis (or your partner’s penis) for a rush of body-temperature pleasure.
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Best Value Anal Vibrator
Blush Luxe Discover Plug
Material: SiliconePower: BatteryStrength: 4/10
You might not think it, but it’s rare to find an affordable vibrating silicone butt plug. Most plugs that won’t bankrupt you are made of porous materials that are harder to clean and aren’t as body-safe, but this one? This one hits all the marks.
It’s silicone, of course, and it features 10 speeds and modes of vibration. Thanks to a waterproof bullet, you can easily remove it if you want to use it on a different body part, or wear the plug comfortably around town.
Speaking of, the Discover’s flared base is designed to mimic the curves of the body so you can easily wear it for as long as is comfortable, then slip the bullet back in whenever you feel like it. And, because it’s silicone, it’ll last much longer than toys made from other materials; a happy fact which makes the $30 you’ll spend on it well worth it.
Cheap Trick: Because the bullet is so easily removable from the plug, this toy (and others like it) really doubles as a couples toy. That’s all we’re going to say — we’ll leave the rest up to your imagination.
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Best Value Couples Vibrator
Material: SiliconePower: Rechargeable
Whether this is your first foray into experimenting with sex toys with your partner, or you’re semi-pros, you can’t go wrong with the We-Vibe Unite. Its slim design makes it ideal for insertion, external stimulation, or dare we say … both!
Seriously, it’s a fun toy that’s flexible in more than one way. You can adjust it to hit just the right angle to add more stimulation to your erogenous zones, or you can add in couple’s play and actually tease one another with it — the choice is yours.
The remote adds another level of fun because you — or your partner — can control its operation, talk about sneaky pleasure! It does ring in at $144, but you can easily find a discount code to bring that price tag down.
Cheap Trick: The We-Vibe charges very quickly, so set it up earlier in the day if you’re planning a romantic excursion at night, so that way all you have to do is unplug and get to playing.
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Best Value Remote Control Vibrator
Satisfyer Partner Plus with Remote Control
Material: SiliconePower: Rechargeable
If it’s double the fun you’re looking for, boy oh boy does the Satisfyer Partner Plus with remote control deliver. One part is meant to be inserted to tickle the g-spot, while the other sits on the clitoris.
Both ends have motors, which means your partner will get added stimulation too. The Satisfyer Partner Plus has seven vibrating rhythms to choose from and three levels of intensity, which means you can turn it up or down, or change the pulsation to one that knocks your socks off.
Plus, it’s waterproof and you know what that means — sudsy fun in the bath or shower. A remote control makes distance play fun — insert the toy then give your partner full control for an experience neither of you will forget. The fun is all yours for only $49.95.
Cheap Trick: Add some water-based lube to this partner pleaser for a true slip and slide adventure that both of you will be dying to try again once you’ve recovered.
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Best Value Dildo Vibrator
Blush Novelties Naturally Yours Vibrating Ding Dong
Material: TPEPower: Battery
The Blush Novelties Naturally Yours Vibrating Ding Dong gives you several ways to play. Whether you’re flying solo or playing with your mate, you’ll appreciate each of its features.
It comes with a bullet that you can leave in for enhanced internal stimulation or remove for added clit action. With five unique vibration patterns and intensity levels, you can play until you find just the right fit.
This vibrating dildo is made from TPE with a smooth feel that’s easy to clean between uses and slides in very easily with lube or your natural arousal. It measures 6.5″ long, with an insertable length of 4.5″ which is ideal for beginners or if you’re petite. Naturally Yours rings up at $42 and you can choose from clear or pink.
Cheap Trick: Dildos can be cold to begin with, so feel free to run it under some warm water or over your body to bring it to room temperature. Use it in the water without the bullet for added fun.
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Best Value Bendable Vibrator
CalExotics Bendie Power Stud Cliterrific
Material: PVC, ABS, PU CotePower: Battery
Everyone’s sex life and preferences are different, so why should you settle for a one-size-fits-all toy? Flexibility is the name of the game when it comes to the CalExotics Bendie Power Stud Cliterrific and boy does it deliver.
With multidirectional positioning, hitting just the right spot has never been easier. Just imagine your favorite curved penis and you can bring it to life. Add in a push-button operation and you’ll be vibing your way to heaven before you know it.
The Power Stud Clitterific has three levels of intensity and a 7.5″ length that’s perfect for internal stimulation of your favorite erogenous zones. It’s got a little bit of girth too, if you like to feel as though you’re being filled up.
Cheap Trick: The Bendie Power Stud Clitterific is basically maintenance-free. Simply clean it between uses, make sure the batteries are good to go and you’re off to the races.
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Best Value Personal Massager
Better Love Pixie Wand Massager
Material: SiliconePower: Rechargeable
The Better Love Personal Massager is fun in a pint-size package — yes, they do really exist. It’s the ideal size for travel, so if you’re always on the go, this is the toy for you.
Made out of silicone, it’s not only body-safe but also easy to grip, even if you feel you’re about to lose control. If you’re new to personal massagers, start on the lowest setting for your comfort.
Need more stimulation? Hit the button and dial up that intensity or change the vibration pattern (there are 10!) so it works for you. This sex toy is priced at $94, but we think it’s worth every single cent.
Cheap Trick: The Pixie Wand Massager is USB rechargeable, so you can ditch the expensive batteries that tend to stop when you’re just on the brink of a mind-shattering orgasm.
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The Case for Cheap Vibrators
Inexpensive vibrators are great because you don’t have to sell any body parts on the black market to afford them, but here’s the thing: even if you’re a billionaire with your own private island and a roaming herd of diamond-encrusted jaguars that lives on one of your many ranches, going with a cheap vibrator is still a good idea for first-time buyers or folks who are looking to experiment and explore.
Why? Cheap vibrators are diagnostic tools.
Because they’re affordable, you can buy a few of them — either all at one time or across however long you want — and experiment with what feels good to you. There are so many sizes, shapes, and types of vibrators to choose from, and it’s good to try as many as you can in order to get a good idea of how to maximize your own pleasure in play.
If you don’t like them, great! Not only does that information help you get a better idea of what to get next time, but it also means you can banish it to the trash guilt-free. Not only did you not spend more than you could afford on it; you also aren’t stuck with sex toy detritus taking up space in your closet, under your bed, or wherever you keep it.
However, if you find you do love your affordable vibe, then you just won life. Not only did you save a bunch of money, but you also did something good for yourself at the same time. When it comes to a cheap vibe, you really can’t lose.
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